Hmmm, it's not just the size, in fact we are not curious about the size at all, we all have a good idea, trust me :
But as I tell any white boi who asks, it's not all about size, it's the attitude that goes with it.
With a Black Man, you surrender your mind as well as your body and you are consumed, like it or not.
You also surrender control - perhaps with some trepidation at first but before long you will find that you are longing for your Man to call and tell you what you will be wearing, what makeup & jewelry to wear, where you will be going and just who you will be doing it with.
You know that you will be taking a nice load or two, it's just a question of when and how much.
OK, that's perhaps an advanced scenario for those that are familiar with the lifestyle, but once you take that first step, that first dance, that first kiss then you know that you can't stop until you are His.
So I guess the fear that some girls experience is just that - being addicted to BBC like a drug addict craves theit next hit.
I've been hooked for years and there is no cure (not that I'd want it anyway!)