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coupleluvirporn2010

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My wife and I have gone to the next level, for us, as far as IR goes. She is now flirting with a couple of our black neighbors in our apartment complex. I feel excited she's doing this but I also feel afraid that I'll say something to these guys that will piss them off. Our cross hall neighbor, who is quite huge and muscular, really doesn't seem to like me or say much to me. He loves my wife but now I'm not so sure I want her to flirt with him. The problem is she says I'm just being stupid and she's only harmlessly flirting anyway. He stops by quite often now for coffee with my wife and I just feel very intimidated by him. A couple of the other black neighbors are chatting her up too now. I liked it when we were into just IR porn but now I don't know. The other day I got into an elevator with my neighbor and another black guy in the building. They went from laughing and carrying on to dead silence when they saw me. They wouldn't say a word to me. When I got off the elevator I was shaking with fear. When I told my wife about it, she just said that i was imagining things but that I best always be polite when I see them? What does that mean? Really confused here.
 
coupleluvirporn2010 said:
My wife and I have gone to the next level, for us, as far as IR goes. She is now flirting with a couple of our black neighbors in our apartment complex. I feel excited she's doing this but I also feel afraid that I'll say something to these guys that will piss them off. Our cross hall neighbor, who is quite huge and muscular, really doesn't seem to like me or say much to me. He loves my wife but now I'm not so sure I want her to flirt with him. The problem is she says I'm just being stupid and she's only harmlessly flirting anyway. He stops by quite often now for coffee with my wife and I just feel very intimidated by him. A couple of the other black neighbors are chatting her up too now. I liked it when we were into just IR porn but now I don't know. The other day I got into an elevator with my neighbor and another black guy in the building. They went from laughing and carrying on to dead silence when they saw me. They wouldn't say a word to me. When I got off the elevator I was shaking with fear. When I told my wife about it, she just said that i was imagining things but that I best always be polite when I see them? What does that mean? Really confused here.
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It sounds like they don't know you approve of her actions, and just don't know what to say to you.
First of all, she needs to make it more obvious to them she's a slut, and wants their BBC. She can let them know you approve of her infidelity, and once they fuck her senseless the first time, it will probably get better. Once they see you as no threat to them getting her in bed, I suspect they will treat you more like just any wimpy white cuck.
 
I think they're just trying to expose the cunt in you. Most black men that I know start from the default position that white males are pussies who can only cause them problems. They're just feeling you out.
 
White guys being afraid of black guys is the natural order of things. Black guys know it and white guys know it too. Some of the tension might ease if the black guys know you want them to do your wife, although I don't imagine that most black guys much care what white boy thinks. Your wife might help the situation by letting them know that you have a role in her sexual escapades (if you do).
 
Thanks for the advice guys. I honestly don't think they much care, you're right. I think they don't like the fact that I'm slight in build and may be perceived as a little feminine. More than once I've heard our neighbor comment to my wife that he doesn't know why women hook up with guys who obviously are weak and lacking masculinity. I've heard her laugh and agree. Not sure if I like this coming out of the fantasy stage. I was uncomfortable to find him massaging her shoulders one day when I came home but was utterly terrified to say anything.
 
she was massaging his shoulders? i think she is doing more than that now. watch out for little black babies.
 
coupleluvirporn2010 said:
Thanks for the advice guys. I honestly don't think they much care, you're right. I think they don't like the fact that I'm slight in build and may be perceived as a little feminine. More than once I've heard our neighbor comment to my wife that he doesn't know why women hook up with guys who obviously are weak and lacking masculinity. I've heard her laugh and agree. Not sure if I like this coming out of the fantasy stage. I was uncomfortable to find him massaging her shoulders one day when I came home but was utterly terrified to say anything.
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You may as well accept that your wife is well on her way to cuckolding you, if she hasn't already.

Her Black playmates are uncomfortable around you because you show that you are uncomfortable around them.
Instead of being terrified to say anything, should you come home to find your neighbor being a bit intimate with your wife, you should try being friendly and outgoing. Try offering him and your wife some refreshments. If it's warm out, you might say something about it and ask if they would like like a cool drink and then go whip up some ice tea or bring him a cold beer, chilled wine or whatever. Make him feel welcome rather than uncomfortable.

By changing your attitude and becoming open and accepting of your new position in your wife's life, you will make everyone more comfortable and you will most likely find things will go a lot smoother.

will
 
vera said:
I think they're just trying to expose the cunt in you. Most black men that I know start from the default position that white males are pussies who can only cause them problems. They're just feeling you out.
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In don't know how to react to them in this scenario. If their goal was tom paralyze me with fear, mission accomplished.
 
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Thanks for the advice guys. I honestly don't think they much care, you're right. I think they don't like the fact that I'm slight in build and may be perceived as a little feminine. More than once I've heard our neighbor comment to my wife that he doesn't know why women hook up with guys who obviously are weak and lacking masculinity. I've heard her laugh and agree. Not sure if I like this coming out of the fantasy stage. I was uncomfortable to find him massaging her shoulders one day when I came home but was utterly terrified to say anything.

You may as well accept that your wife is well on her way to cuckolding you, if she hasn't already.

Her Black playmates are uncomfortable around you because you show that you are uncomfortable around them.
Instead of being terrified to say anything, should you come home to find your neighbor being a bit intimate with your wife, you should try being friendly and outgoing. Try offering him and your wife some refreshments. If it's warm out, you might say something about it and ask if they would like like a cool drink and then go whip up some ice tea or bring him a cold beer, chilled wine or whatever. Make him feel welcome rather than uncomfortable.

By changing your attitude and becoming open and accepting of your new position in your wife's life, you will make everyone more comfortable and you will most likely find things will go a lot smoother.

will

I'm trying to be accommodating, believe me. I offered him a beer today when I saw him. He seemed good with that.
 
It sounds like a natural progression from your interest in IR porn to your wife flirting with black neighbors. It doesn't appear you have an issue with the flirting but are concerned you may get shut out. It also seems your wife has decided what she is doing is ok so trying to put a stop to it is just going to make her resent your imposition. As others suggested, let her know the flirting doesn't bother you, you may even find it exciting that others find her as sexy as you do. Reinforce the non-sexual aspects of your relationship to make sure she still sees you as a loving, supportive partner (sexually she sees them as the studs in the IR vids you watch). Hopefully their attraction is only physical and as long as you can accept this things should improve. Talk with your wife, if she feels comfortable when both you & the neighbor are around it will likely make him more comfortable. If she feels comfortable flirting in front of you & you show it doesn't bother you that will probably help things too. Hope you keep us updated on how things progress.
 
A couple of days ago I came home to find my wife standing and talking to our black neighbor in the kitchen. She was wearing a short skirt, nylons and heels and he was sitting with a quite visible boner in his pants. I pretended not to notice his hard cock and excused myself, saying I had to pick up some groceries. He seemed happy with that. When I came home, he was gone and my wife was changed into her pajamas. I kissed her and sensed something not right about her breath. I didn't mention anything about that to her.
 
coupleluvirporn2010 said:
A couple of days ago I came home to find my wife standing and talking to our black neighbor in the kitchen. She was wearing a short skirt, nylons and heels and he was sitting with a quite visible boner in his pants. I pretended not to notice his hard cock and excused myself, saying I had to pick up some groceries. He seemed happy with that. When I came home, he was gone and my wife was changed into her pajamas. I kissed her and sensed something not right about her breath. I didn't mention anything about that to her.
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Good for you!
In the future, instead of pretending to not notice his boner, let him see you looking and then give him a smile as you mention whatever it is that you "need to go do" to enable him to enjoy your wife's company for a while.
That way he will understand that you are not only accepting but encouraging him to give your wife pleasure and that he doesn't need to worry about you going wacko and getting a gun or something.

Of course, once you do this and he knows he has a green light, you will probably find him spending a lot more time at your place. So you might as well let your wife know it's OK also so she doesn't feel she needs to sneak around about it.

Eventually, they may become comfortable enough about you knowing and being accepting that you won't need to find reasons to leave and you can just relax watching TV or something in the living room while they have fun in the bedroom. Then, if you want to be more accommodating, when you hear things quite down in the bedroom, you might tap gently on the door and ask if you can bring them some refreshments or warm wash cloths.

Good luck,
will
 
I'm always friendly and respectfull when one of my wifes man friends comes over. The first time you bring refreshments into whatever room your wfe is entertaining her guess in, smile and make a light joke, like "looks like you guys have been having fun" or whatever. They will be more at ease and your wife will like it that you understand and go the extra distance for her.
 
If you walk in on them talking or what ever just apologize and tell him that you didn't intend to interupt their privicy and then excuse yourself. Ask him can you get anything for him or her before you make an excuse to leave. Your wife can help this situation along greatly if she wanted to by just telling you, in front of him, that they would like some privicy and for you to get lost for a while. I have had to do that to a white boy before. At that point the black man knows whats up!! lol ;D
 
You might have to run us off because a lot of us want to hang around and watch.

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If you walk in on them talking or what ever just apologize and tell him that you didn't intend to interupt their privicy and then excuse yourself. Ask him can you get anything for him or her before you make an excuse to leave. Your wife can help this situation along greatly if she wanted to by just telling you, in front of him, that they would like some privicy and for you to get lost for a while. I have had to do that to a white boy before. At that point the black man knows whats up!! lol ;D
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It sounds like you are ready to fully accept her in her role as a Black Man’s woman. This means your new role has to be one of submission and service. Be overtly respectful to her black friends and also be very submissive to her in front of them. Let it be known that she is the boss of the family. Get her and her friends refreshments, clean up after them, make them as comfortable as possible, and jump to any orders they give you. Fulfilling this subordinate role will let them know that you understand your inferior status to them. Most of all, your wife needs to express in front of them and you of her need for black dick. When she does this, just nod your head yes. This should relieve all the pressure.
 
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