EH1988 said:
So I have always wanted to try black cock, but I first wanted to have a cuckold who I knew would take care of me. I have finally found a boy who is nice and quite wimpy. He is submissive to me, and cries a lot, hah. What would the next step be in getting what I want, for him to be a cuckold and such? Any ideas/advice?
Well, not having more info about your cuck-to-be than this to work with, I would suggest that you start by training him to please you orally. You should have him service you several times a day just to get him into the habit of pleasuring you whenever you desire. You should also develop a silent signal that tells him when you want him to service you so that you don't need to tell him out loud. ALWAYS compliment him on his efforts even if it he isn't so good at the beginning, but be honest about telling him how you like it done. He will get better with your encouragement.
While you are training him to be a first class cunt licker you should begin undermining his confidence in being able to please you in any other way sexually by encouraging him to ejaculate quickly whenever you allow him to cum. Make sure you tell him that it's OK that he can't last because he gives you so much pleasure with his mouth.
If he is lacking in size, also make sure you mention that his tongue makes up for it.
This will give him pleasing you orally as something to focus on as something that makes him of value to you.
Once you feel he is comfortable serving you orally, have intercourse with him with you on top. Once he ejaculates, quickly move your vagina to his mouth and tell him to finish what he started. If he resists, tell him how bad you need his tongue right now. If he still resists, reach back and take his balls in your hand and give a gentle squeeze.
Once he has tasted his own sperm, it shouldn't be too difficult to make it a habit by having him lick you clean as well as to orgasm every time you have intercourse. NEVER have an orgasm while fucking him, only when he is eating you.
This should only take a few weeks and by that time he will understand that he can only give you pleasure with his mouth as his penis is to small and/or he ejaculates too quickly. He will also be accustomed to consuming cum. Now is the time to have the "Honey, you know I love you and love how you treat me, BUT" talk where you tell him that even as good as he makes you feel with his mouth that there is something missing and you think MAYBE it would be a good idea to split up so you can find a man that can please you in the ways he can't.
At this point he will undoubtedly be shattered and will be begging you to reconsider and promise you anything if you will stay with him. You now have free reign to tell him how you want things to be if he is really serious about being yours. Make sure he understands that you are PERMITTING him to be YOURS.
Lay out whatever rules you wish including how he will take care of the house, and whatever as well as that he accept that you will be enjoying other men sexually when ever you wish. When he agrees to everything you demand be sure to tell him how happy he is making you and how much you love him for wanting to make your desires come true the most important thing in his life.
Now that you have him where you want him DON'T run out and bring home a guy to fuck. Take a little time to let things settle in and get your new home routine in place with him doing all the little things you enjoy. When you play with your boy give him little reminders about how wonderful it is to have someone like him, how proud you are that he truly cares about your happiness AND how great it will be to enjoy intercourse when you find the right man. You want to instill in your boy that even though you are looking forward to enjoying sex with others, that he is the one that you want to come home to.
In the meantime, start looking for a lover that will understand and help you gently bring your cuckold along. The first one should be someone that will let you take the lead and not be too intimidating for your boy. When you feel you have found someone arrange to have him be somewhere that you can "happen" to be with your boy. Have it set up ahead of time with him as to how you want the evening to go.
When you see him, say at a bar, he should just be hanging out. You should mention to your boy how attractive you think the fellow at the bar is and tell him you want him to go to the bar and invite the man to your table. Of course your boy will become upset, but remind him of his promises and ask him if he was lying about wanting you to be happy. He will have no choice but to acquiesce. If he starts to have a tantrum, just tell him how disappointed you are in him and that he should go home and pack his things and move out while you get acquainted with the new man. If you moved in with him, tell him that you want to go home immediately so you can pack some things.
Either of these threats should be sufficient to get him to go to bar and invite your new friend over. Make sure you introduce your "boyfriend" to your new friend. After some small talk which should include mention of how your "boyfriend" understands your need to occasionally enjoy the company of other men and how he fits the bill if he's interested, invite your new friend home to continue the party in a more intimate atmosphere.
Have your lover follow you home and on the way give your boy a choice: he can go to whatever room is available to stay in, go to a hotel or if he prefers, it would really make you happy and proud if he would help make your guest comfortable by serving some drinks and refreshments while the two of you get to know each other better. Most likely your boy will want to be near you and will agree to serve, BUT warn him that you will not tolerate any carrying on.
Once you are home and comfortable cuddling up to your new friend and your boy has served the refreshments, it will be time to get serious. Start getting into some heavy kissing and fondling and then ask you lover if he would mind if your boyfriend helps out. Of course, you've prearranged this and now you give your boy the signal to perform oral sex on you.
This reassures your boy that he is still a part of your world and makes him a willing partner to his own cuckolding.
After a bit of making out with your lover and having your pussy eaten, during which you should try to occasionally stroke your boys head to reassure him, have your boy go turn down the bed covers and make the bedroom ready. Give him a few minutes and then follow with your lover. When you get to the bedroom, have your boy undress you while you stand there making out. After you are naked begin undressing your lover and as you do so, hand his clothes to your boy to fold and put away. Once you are both naked, kneel down and start giving your new man a slow wet blow job. While you are doing this, make sure you make eye contact with your boy. Don't make him cum yet, but after a little sucking, move to the bed and let the fucking begin.
Your boy might be tempted to masturbate, but don't let him. Tell him you want him to save it for you to share later. The reason is you want him to stay horny and frustrated as this makes him easier to control.
After you are done fucking or taking a break, you will need to see if your boy can handle giving you an oral clean up while your lover is present. Give him the signal and see if he obeys. If not, don't force him, but wait until your new friend leaves and then ask your boy why he refused. It will be either because he was ashamed to do it in front of your lover, he didn't want to eat your lover's cum or both. You will need to reason with him that if he wants you to be happy that he should trust you and do the harmless little things that make you happy. After all, it's not like he hasn't eaten cum before or licked your pussy in front of your lover, right? Besides, he knows how happy his oral talents make you, doesn't he? Doesn't he want to make you as sexually satisfied as your other men do? Of course he does!
By now you should see a pattern emerging. You are always giving him an opportunity to demonstrate his love and devotion to you and your happiness. You are making those opportunities as easy as possible for him to take by removing any logical reason for him to refuse ahead of time. Most importantly, you are always giving HIM the opportunity to voluntarily choose to make you happy.
Equally important, however, is rewarding him when he does well. Making him feel that he has an important place in your life (who else eats your pussy as good as he does, especially after it's been freshly fucked?). Keeping him wanting to make you happy and needing your approval is the key to having a successful cuckolding relationship.
A properly trained cuckold will supply you with comfort, service, freedom and entertainment. Not only will you enjoy the suffering in his eyes as he watches you take your first Black cock, but also the first time he eats a cream pie made by another, the first time he cleans your lover's cock and many other firsts. The trick is in making him WANT to suffer for you.
Best of luck,
will
