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Something I wrote some time ago expounding on my experiences and beliefs surrounding interracial sex. I hope you all will enjoy it!
femmeworhipper said:Interracial Sexual Encounters: The How And Why Of Better Sex For The White Woman.
This writing deals with exactly what the title describes. Within it we will discuss the reasons and motivations for interracial sex between white females and black males. I will also take a look at some stereotypes and myths. This article outlines the facts and reasons why black men and white women are so perfectly compatible in the sexual arena.
First let’s take a look at some myths and stereotypes. First myth: traditional female sexual upbringing. This is the deepest rooted and most pervasive trouble women in this repressed and closed minded society. Women are taught from a very young age that promiscuity is bad and wrong. Women are taught to have feelings of guilt and shame connected to their sexuality. In short women aren’t taught the truth, and the truth is that a woman who enjoys sex, and is not afraid to go get sex from the man or men of her choosing, or is even promiscuous and has more than one lover, is not bad and she’s not a tramp or a slut as we’ve all been taught. Young girls ought to be taught that their bodies can give them great sexual pleasure, and that seeking and partaking in such pleasure shouldn’t be a taboo.
They ought to also be taught that for this to be ok for them, they must be taking care of their bodies and their physical well being, and they should be being honest and open about their sexual proclivities with the man or men she’s sleeping with as the case may be. The curtain of shame must be lifted from sex. As a human being and as a woman you have every right to enjoy your body and share it with whomever you like, whenever you like, and as often as you like, without guilt or shame. The stigma needs to be lifted from the word “slut”, much as the word black should be given a less derogatory meaning. A slut in my mind is simply a sexual woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to go after it. In men we consider such a guy a “stud and he is lauded with envy and respect if he has much success with women. Why then should there be a double standard?
The second myth I’d like to deal with is monogamy. Monogamy is touted as what we are “supposed” to do. There is very little scientific evidence that man was meant for monogamy. Very few creatures in the great Animal kingdom at large are monogamous, rather most mate with the best mate they can find. It’s called “Natural Selection” and we will deal more in depth with it later in the article. In short we are like any other animal species concerning our instincts. We have the instinct to mate and we have the drive to mate with the finest physical specimen we are able to sexually attract. There are scientific theories about the origin and early days of mankind, and one such theory is that women and men lived separately, and mated when the opportunity arose and the males and females were available for mating. The theory also holds that the men will then go off and abandon the communal group of women who will, then raise the child amongst the community of women. In short there is much evidence (far more than I’ll go into), that man wasn’t made for monogamy, and very little evidence to support monogamy.
Monogamy does have positives and can be the right choice for some people but as a rule it is not natural to us as a species. Women in particular need to understand that having a variety of sexual partners is acceptable if that’s what she chooses, and that she ought to feel as free to enjoy sex as men generally are.
The first stereotype I will look at is: Black men have bigger penises. Stereotypes are what they are because there is always enough truth in them for them to form, but always enough room for variables that they cannot be considered truth on the whole. The truth of the matter is that many black men have average sized penises, some are even smalls. When I say average I mean the average that we white men average (approximately six inches), but penis size is not the only reason why black men very often make better sex partners for white women, although it is a major factor.
The other general truth is if you picked 25 black men at random and 25 white men at random, more of the black men are going to have large penises by percentage, for the sake of argument let’s say that 70% of the black men have a big penis. Well when you measure up the white guys let’s just say you find that only 25% of them have a big penis. Of course let’s not forget that penis size is only one factor in the equation. The fact that on the whole black men are superior sex partners is due to several factors most of which are yet to be discussed. Back to the point of the two groups of 25; the actual fact about black men and penis size is that yes, if you average it out, black men’s penises are, in general bigger, and that if you are seeking a man with a large penis, logic would dictate that you’d have an easier time seeking that among the black men than the white. So in short, this stereotype holds up, and is largely deserved.
The second stereotype is that black men do not perform cunnilingus (“eating pussy”). This is largely untrue. I’ve known many black men, and many of them were as willing as any white guy to orally please a beautiful woman. If you look at black men as a whole I believe you will find that they put more effort into pleasing their lovers than is the common belief. The reason for the stereotype is because of the few black men who will not eat pussy are generally a very vocal minority. So outspoken about the fact that they will not perform cunnilingus, that people have come to the largely false conclusion that this is true. Perhaps it more the case in other parts of the country than where I live, but I’d venture to say black men eating pussy is not at all a rare occurrence.
The last myth I wish to address is the old saying; “Once you go black, you never go back.” Yes people this is a myth. Many women, who’ve slept with black men, can and do go back for various reasons, though often it is not because of sexual pleasure and satisfaction, but due to other peripheral factors. The reasons are often non sexual ones, such as, perhaps she has a love relationship with a white man, or perhaps she needs a man who is financially solvent. The truth within this myth is that it is true, that for the most part black men are better sex partners and that the white woman will approximately 8 times out of 10 find deeper and more satisfying sex with black partners. Quite a number (my own wife included), who’ve slept with black men freely admit that black men are better in bed.
Almost invariably if you ask a woman who has been with both white and black men, she will tell you that blacks are better. This brings me to a survey I read. When polled on if black men are better in bed, nearly 80% of women prefer black men sexually. About the same number are more likely to have sex with, perform kinkier sex acts, including anal sex with a black man. The first myth I spoke of, the upbringing of white women plays a big factor here. Just as a woman who freely enjoys sexuality is erroneously shunned by much of society at large, so too is the white woman who dates black men exclusively. These women are subjected to all manner of racist ideologies and scorn from some in the white and black communities. So factor if that into the equation and I’m betting that from a purely physical standpoint the number of white women that prefer black would quite likely jump up around 90%.
Some women simply cannot enjoy sex with a black man, because of her negative training and upbringing. The last 10% of women that do not prefer black lovers, likely either A, have an exceptional white lover (yes some white men are naturally skilled in bed and even quite well endowed), or B, are physically built such that a larger penis is painful for them (and this can and does happen).
The reasons why black men are most often superior in the sexual arena are complex. The first, simplest, and most obvious is the large penis stereotype. Face it guys, no matter what she says bigger IS better, plain and simple (in the vast majority of cases)! The layout of the vagina itself lends itself to more satisfaction from a larger penis. The clitoris, located on the top of the vagina (that’s for you white boys that didn’t know), is naturally more stimulated but a penis with more girth. My own wife says her black lover can make her orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, with no direct clitoral stimulation. This is something she’d never experienced with a white lover. Her most regular black lover has a very thick penis, compared to any of her previous lovers, and because of that she feels much more aroused and wet for him than she had ever been with white lovers.
I (and many of you) have watched a lot of porn in my time, and in nearly all of the white on white porn I have seen, you just don’t often see the woman get very aroused. She quite often doesn’t seem that wet, and often you can even see them using lubricant. If you look at it objectively, often the girl seems bored, and fakes moans and orgasms….Obviously she’s in it for the money.
While you will also see black male porn stars use lubricant (because that kind of penis size may require it), you will also find, if you watch enough interracial porn that white women often get VERY wet for a lover with a big black penis. Just about all of the times I have seen a woman “cream” all over a guy’s penis has been in interracial porn.
I firmly believe that many of these women really enjoy a black man sexually, and it’s evident by their performances. There is also so often much more intensity behind the orgasms commonly seen in interracial porn; I’m sure lots of girls do black guys firstly for the money, but I think like the majority white women, they learn to enjoy the magic of interracial coupling, as is so natural for white women to do.
So aside from penis size, what could be the reason for the strong powerful yet completely natural attraction that white women have in regard to black men? Well this is where I get back to natural selection. We as people have an intellectual side, and this is what separates us from the animals, but all the same underneath it all, we are essentially animals ourselves, full of natural drives and instincts. Whether we know it or not, the reasons we are attracted sexually to specific other people is because of our base instincts. It is natural for women to desire the finest male specimen to breed with them.
As much as you may love someone intellectually and emotionally, the baser physical instincts cannot be completely defied. That’s a big part of why men in monogamous relationships are constantly attracted to and possibly even sexually involved with other women. Men are born with the instinct to spread seed and impregnate as many women as he can. We have these instincts for good reasons. It’s all for the strengthening of the gene pool, propagation of the species, and to pass on as many positive traits of each parent as possible. This is how we are made, like it or not. So, that said, it’s not at all a wonder that large majority of white women, somewhere deep within, have the quite normal and natural sexual desire for a black lover.
Much scientific evidence suggest that the black man is the physically superior (on average, but not by a very large margin) to white males. The same science suggest that the black man is, on average, slightly intellectually inferior to the white (and the Asian slightly superior to both). There are many cultural factors involved here; in this country, whether we like it or not, the black man is still a part of a subculture. Opportunity that whites and Asians may have open to them are not always there for blacks.
The system in society is often stacked against the black man (or woman for that matter), even still. In any case, back on the matter of physical superiority. All you have to do is look at professional sports. The black athlete is quite often clearly superior, no question about it. So understanding our natural instincts, if you set aside upbringing and conditioning, a woman, on the strength of her instincts alone, would clearly choose the black male to mate with over the white in the majority of cases.
The black man in general, is the finest physical specimen of human kind. By the same token, most of what are considered to be the world’s most beautiful women on earth are Caucasian, often the prime specimen of human womanhood. The de facto logic is that they were meant to be together.
One interesting behavior often seen in so called “cuckold” relationships (the wife sleeps with black men and the husband is sexless in some cases, but not in others, yet he allows and even encourages her “infidelity” for lack of a better word, is the occurrence of what could in some cases be mistaken for homosexual acts. In some situations for instance the black male may force the white male to fellate him (suck his dick), or the like. While this can sometimes be an indicator of bisexual or even homosexual behavior that is not always the case; sometimes it’s simply the superior “alpha” male exercising his status and asserting his very natural dominance over the white male.
Along with his obvious superior physicality, the black man is very often naturally more adept of a lover. It is often said that blacks “have rhythm”, and while this may on the surface seem like a silly statement based on popular music, if you asked a white woman that dates black men (assuming she’s ever had a white lover before), many would agree that they do indeed have rhythm. “They just fuck better period. I can’t really say why they just do, a LOT better.” my own wife says enthusiastically when asked. We have good sex and I am capable of bringing her to orgasm, but I can accept the fact that she prefers black lovers physically and I know this is very natural.
Watch how a black man moves when he’s fucking a white girl in porn. There is no question that many black men have an innate natural skill in this area. Add the skill a black man has with the natural attraction a white female’s natural desire to mate with a superior black male physical specimen, and the large penis that women naturally desire, and that’s a powerful combination.
Don’t believe a big penis alone is reason enough to go black? Read this then: http://www.penissizedebate.com/ . It is an excellent source of accurate information about why women prefer a larger penis.
In conclusion I’d like to say that contrary to what many may think, I write this as a white male who just happened to make the effort to understand the white woman’s need for black lovers to achieve ultimate sexual satisfaction. Essentially the way I look at it is; say I have a nut and bolt I have to get apart. I may have a pair of pliers which can get it apart but a wrench would do the job much better, only I don’t have one that fits, but my neighbor does. What then do I do? I borrow his wrench and undo the nut and bolt the best way, so I don’t wreck it up with the effective yet crude and clumsy pliers. Thus with it in that perspective I can understand that if I want my wife to enjoy sex to its maximum potential, I shouldn’t (and don't) have any qualms about her taking one or more black men as lovers, provided we have a clear understanding and agreement on the situation (which we happily have). Besides, comparing a white man to a black man is in many ways like apples and oranges. Both are good for what they’re good for but both are different and good for different things; there’s a reason why you never heard of “orange pie”!
Anyway women, do yourself a big favor and open you mind to sex with a black man, I don’t doubt you will thank yourself, and guys (white guys), lighten up on your lady, and encourage her to enjoy her sexuality to its maximum potential. By all means if you love her and want the finer things in life for her, encourage her to try black one white sex and practice it regularly. As with anything pick your partners carefully ladies, but remember black on white sex is a “must experience” kind of thing, and will most likely lead to the most satisfying and rewarding sex you've ever experienced. Don't you owe that to yourself?
