Upbringing/Religion vs. Cuckolding

[tomascini]

This post isn't meant to offend or step on anyone's toes, but I'd like to know, prior to when you ever had the thought/idea of being submissive or allowing yourself become a cuckold to your wife/gf in respect to her black lover, did your family upbringing or your religious faith ever play a decisive role towards sharpening your choice?

 

[bethh213]

sorta! ???

 

[Brie]

Maybe a bit. My family were/are conservative Christian, so it was always taboo!

 

[sdmwc4blk]

Some but the vision of her with her first Black Lover convinced me i was submissive and was going to be a cuckold. i accepted the fact that she loved being with a Black Man but still loved me. She needed the superior sex that only a Black Man can provide. we moved into being submissive to Black Men totally later. It is true "once you go Black, you never go back."

 

[tomascini]

Maybe a bit. My family were/are conservative Christian, so it was always taboo!

I met a lot of folks like yours when I was in Maine in July last year. Up there folks tend to look down on a white woman who optes to be with a black man. They reckon she isn't fit to date her own kind that only a black would be the next best option for them.

 

[tomascini]

Maybe a bit. My family were/are conservative Christian, so it was always taboo!

I met a lot of folks like yours when I was in Maine in July last year. Up there folks tend to look down on a white woman who optes to be with a black man. They reckon she isn't fit to date her own kind that only a black would be the next best option for them.

 

[Zagg]

That's the main rationalization that a lot of white boys use to deal with the fact that more and more white women are dating and marrying black men: "They're all fat" or "They're just white trash". Alas, there are still a lot of white boys who bitterly resist accepting that white women love black men.

Maybe a bit. My family were/are conservative Christian, so it was always taboo!

I met a lot of folks like yours when I was in Maine in July last year. Up there folks tend to look down on a white woman who optes to be with a black man. They reckon she isn't fit to date her own kind that only a black would be the next best option for them.

 

[tomascini]

You certainly have a point there, Zagg. A lot of those white bois making that sort of declaration are most likely jealous and that's their feeble attempt at expressing anger at what they see happening in their homes & neighbourhood.

 

[badmarie59]

I grew up in the South and certainly had a lot of experiences where I was told that blacks were "inferior" or other such nonsense when I was a little girl. I also didn't have a black classmate in school until the fourth grade.

My parents weren't racist at all they both didn't care whether or not a person was black or white. I was brought up the same way. I was one of a few girls who made friends with the black boys in high school. Looking back, there were no sexual tones between them and myself but I just tried to be nice to them I guess. My parents were very religious and had brought me up to be kind and forgiving with people who were not. My first attraction to a black man was in college and it didn't feel like I was going against anything. I'm sure that girls I grew up with would disagree but I only saw a person, not a color.

My husband is as religious as my parents were and while he's not racist by any means he certainly would disagree with the things I have done. I see the things I have done as being pleasure for me and that I was being selfish at those times. I spent 25 years being unselfish when it came to my family and God. I finally took an opportunity to seek pleasure for myself, so I don't see a problem with that.

 

[vera]

LOL... Yes, I remember when young, that upon seeing a white girl with a black man the oft repeated axiom was: "If a black is with a white woman, the black is in bad company".

 

[Zagg]

Never heard that one. Thanks.

LOL... Yes, I remember when young, that upon seeing a white girl with a black man the oft repeated axiom was: "If a black is with a white woman, the black is in bad company".

 

[Slave0666]

That seems to be prevalent here in the small Midwestern town I live in. The black guys grab up all the fat and trashy looking women that they can find. But every once in a while one of those women won't look half bad and well my theory is that black men actually make white women better looking than they actually are. But as far as seeing hot ass white girls with good looking Hung black guys you've got to go to porn sites or just come here.

That's the main rationalization that a lot of white boys use to deal with the fact that more and more white women are dating and marrying black men: "They're all fat" or "They're just white trash". Alas, there are still a lot of white boys who bitterly resist accepting that white women love black men.

Maybe a bit. My family were/are conservative Christian, so it was always taboo!

I met a lot of folks like yours when I was in Maine in July last year. Up there folks tend to look down on a white woman who optes to be with a black man. They reckon she isn't fit to date her own kind that only a black would be the next best option for them.