Ladies, it should never become "old hat" if you have the right approach.
It's important if you are in a relationship with a white boi, to involve him as well, make him a part of the process.
This will ensure that he will support you and encourage you as your lust develops.
Let him (or make him!) help prepare you for your dates, you know, run the bath, paint your nails, choose the outfit, etc.
Always remember to tell him all the juicy details from your date nite.
Co-operation is the key if you want to keep your white boi happy, don't forget the occasional sympathy wank.
Make sure he gets something out of the setup even if it's only humiliation . . . .
If you make him part of the equation then he'll look after you and your woman can enjoy the lifestyle that she deserves.