Why Become a Cuckold??

tomascini

tomascini

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I've had this question burning inside me but always kept forgetting to post it. Its for the wives, hubbies and just about anyone/everyone here to contribute to, 'cos I feel your opinion matters a lot, though I'd appreciate your humble honesty to the question.

Have any of you ever asked the question: 'why be a cuckold?' Its not just about the wife/GF cheating on you, or that you fancy her in the arms of another, or that you can't compete with her sexually... But I want to know why or what ever brought the thought to want to do it in the first place? What really fostered the idea in your mind?

And how come a lot more couples out there are getting involved in the trend?
 
I think a lot of it is simply female empowerment. If you graph it out, the cuckold trend follows the women's liberation trend. I think men are naturally wired from day one to entertain the risque but have seldom, in generations past, had willing female partners in the numbers necessary to make cuckolding a lifestyle. The cuckolding and swinging parties I've been privy to almost always include the female looking over at her partner during passion with a gaze that says... "look honey, I'm fucking a black", or "look honey, I eat pussy", or "look honey, I like em young", and so forth. Seldom does the man look over at his wife with the expression that says, "look honey, I'm horny". It's a societal given that men are horny and immoral. Also, in this busy and demanding day and age we live in, I think men find it easier to allow someone else to do the hard work of fucking. I know I'll ruffle a few feathers here, but here it goes.... In generations past, whitie found it convenient to have niggers pick their cotton, or clean their houses, and so on.... Today, many white men like to use the services of niggers to do their fucking.... Many women are unpredictable, not easy to please, moody, and so on..... Rather than attempt to negotiate that minefield of emotions, white men just encourage a black to come in and take care of business..... The women are MORE than happy with the arrangement (big dicks, machine like athleticism) and the men are happy, both white and black.
 
I think there's a lot to what you say here, Vera. One other thing: Although men are always horny in the sense that they're obsessed with sex, they're not always able to get it up and keep it up. When he consistently squirts within sixty seconds and has to hear her complaints, it makes a lot of sense to outsource the job to someone who can do the job. If he's lucky enough to be allowed to watch and beat off, everybody's happy

vera said:
I think a lot of it is simply female empowerment. If you graph it out, the cuckold trend follows the women's liberation trend. I think men are naturally wired from day one to entertain the risque but have seldom, in generations past, had willing female partners in the numbers necessary to make cuckolding a lifestyle. The cuckolding and swinging parties I've been privy to almost always include the female looking over at her partner during passion with a gaze that says... "look honey, I'm fucking a black", or "look honey, I eat pussy", or "look honey, I like em young", and so forth. Seldom does the man look over at his wife with the expression that says, "look honey, I'm horny". It's a societal given that men are horny and immoral. Also, in this busy and demanding day and age we live in, I think men find it easier to allow someone else to do the hard work of fucking. I know I'll ruffle a few feathers here, but here it goes.... In generations past, whitie found it convenient to have niggers pick their cotton, or clean their houses, and so on.... Today, many white men like to use the services of niggers to do their fucking.... Many women are unpredictable, not easy to please, moody, and so on..... Rather than attempt to negotiate that minefield of emotions, white men just encourage a black to come in and take care of business..... The women are MORE than happy with the arrangement (big dicks, machine like athleticism) and the men are happy, both white and black.
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True cuck here. Vera and Zagg, you are both right.

And as for me it all started when we were clubbing and guys hitting on my wife when we were both still dating. She's very attractive and the hits are just to be expected. Fast forward, she's been w/guys who can satisfy her much more than I can. Now I can't satisfy her at all and rarely even try. She says I'm to small and cum to quick.

I don't get hard for it anymore really b/c I'm always jacking w/her knowledge to this site and others alike. And it's definetly easier for me to let someone else do the real work.
 
I do my best to enlighten them.

tomascini said:
That's a worthy decision you too! More and more hubbies ought to follow suite.

Zagg said:
It did take a while for me to realize that it was a good thing, but since then, no, I haven't looked back.

tomascini said:
Zagg said:
I got the idea because my first wife made me one.
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And you haven't looked back since!
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Yes, keep on doing so. They should learn not to be afraid of speaking their minds.

Zagg said:
I do my best to enlighten them.

tomascini said:
That's a worthy decision you too! More and more hubbies ought to follow suite.

Zagg said:
It did take a while for me to realize that it was a good thing, but since then, no, I haven't looked back.

tomascini said:
Zagg said:
I got the idea because my first wife made me one.
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And you haven't looked back since!
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For me it isn't so much becoming a cuckold as the goal, as much as it is having my Wife enjoy the most pleasure she possibly can.

I realized long ago that no matter how well matched a husband and Wife might be, no one person can possibly be everything that the other needs or desires. So rather than see my Wife do without or make do with less pleasure than she deserves, I gladly welcome someone else to share our bed to give her the total sexual fulfillment that I can not give her on my own, if she desires it.

While many men would be afraid that this might lead to loosing their Wife, I have found that giving her the freedom to enjoy her sexuality actually binds us closer as she appreciates that I can give her that freedom joyfully as a gift rather than begrudgingly or need to sneak around.

Just as I might not be able to give her everything she desires in order to be completely satisfied sexually, I know that no one else can be the loving husband that I am and do all the things I do that keep her loving and appreciating me.

This doesn't mean that I wouldn't also get a buzz from serving her as her cuckold, but I get that simply by getting on my knees any time she spreads her legs and allows me to lick her to orgasm. Hmmmm!

OK, so I'm pussy whipped! (and I love it!)
will
 
Not necessarily gay, Beth. When a white woman recognizes the sexual superiority of black men, she just starts effing them. When a straight white guy comes to the same realization, he doesn't have that option. For a great many married white guys, the next best thing is to give his wife or girlfriend to the black men and participate vicariously. If he gets to watch, all the better. It's the only thing most of us can do, if we're lucky.

bethh213 said:
I guess I will never understand the cuck stuff!! Unless the white guy is gay?? ???
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bethh213 said:
I guess I will never understand the cuck stuff!! Unless the white guy is gay?? ???
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Beth,
Not all cuckolds have sexual contact with the Wife's lovers, some are never even present while the Wife is "entertaining".

The style of cuckolding varies from couple to couple, some husbands are active participants, some not.

Those that are active also do so to varying degrees: some simply watch, some serve as butlers, some serve in the popular stereotypical manner of the "cream pie" eating sissy while others are simply the third person of a basic swinger style threesome.

The problem for most people in trying to understand why or how cuckolding can be of value is the proliferance of the stereotype wherein the cuckold is depicted as a weak, white male who is constantly humiliated and belittled by his Wife and her lover, force to suck the lover's cock and lick the lover's cum from his Wife's well fucked pussy. This depiction would absolutely cause one to wonder if the husband is indeed a closet gay who secretly desires to be "f...d" to do these things.

If one looks past the stereotype, it becomes easier to see that for some couples, cuckolding can be a beneficial lifestyle.
Say you love your husband and your marriage is fabulous except for sex. Your husband loves you more than anything, but for whatever reason, is unable to satisfy you.
Perhaps he had prostate surgery and can no longer become erect and you do all the other things a couple can do sexually, but you still miss feeling a man's penis throbbing inside you, a real penis, not a rubber substitute. IF your husband can handle it emotionally and you are able to disassociate having sex from love, then inviting another man into your bed occasionally may work for you. Especially if all three of you can be comfortable having a threesome. There doesn't need to be any male on male action, just both men pleasing the Wife with one acting as the "designated fucker".

Of course, there are many other variations that might work better for a particular couple's situation.
The thing is not all cuckolds are the spineless, cocksucking pansies that you usually see described on the porn sites.

will
 
I think it'll be safe to safe that the reason for much of the stereotyped negativity regarding cuckolding comes from the porn industry.
 
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