you may not have to find another woman to join the lifestyle. Don’t tell her anything about your interest in IR (even if she saw it in the porn you were looking at). Then start looking for a church which has interracial couples. They do exist these days, even among fundamentalist congregations. Also, begin to develop an interest in the black church and in black preachers, and take her to some meetings. There are some black preachers out there, especially in the Pentecostal community, who may be willing to help you out. Religious white girls seem more ready to give it up for a spiritual leader that they trust. I hope this helps.