I spent some time asking around and collecting ideas. While my ex-girlfriend broke up with me before I could make use of this list, perhaps you can use it and see what your girlfriend/fiancee/wife thinks. If anyone would like to add to it, please feel free to do so.
Also, please remember that your girlfriend/fiancee/wife is a person with a mind of her own, and that she can probably tell if you're trying to force something. So, don't force anything. Offer these things as suggestions. Don't push it if she says no, or that she'll think about it. You might spend weeks, or months before she feels in the mood to seriously explore a sexual relationship with black men, let alone being black only, black owned, or black bred. Go slowly.
- Watch interracial porn together
(Some porn videos can be 30 minutes long, so if you pick a tasteful one she could be watching a very satisfied girl with a big black cock inside her for half an hour. You know your girlfriend best, some like it gentle, some like it rough, but keep in mind that most porn is marketed to men. If it's not helping the mood, then stop the video.)
- Roleplay together
(It doesn't have to be obvious, garish, or distasteful. Ask her what kinds of roles she would enjoy, try to work black men into the mix. Maybe you're her overbearing new boss and she's the doting secretary?)
- Point out black men who are hot (sometimes)
(There are plenty of singers, athletes, artists, and other celebrities for girls to fawn over. I have plenty of female friends who do this, and it's harmless to join in. Just don't point out that you're not gay, because that's just awkward. She knows you're not gay.)
- Go dancing
(There are plenty of people dancing in clubs, and in other places. Take her somewhere she can let her hair down and dance a little. Make it clear that it's okay if she dances with other men. If you're not the dancing sort, then hang back, get her a drink, and watch. Remember you're there to have fun, and if you look like you're not having fun, then she won't have fun either.)
- Talk about it
(It doesn't have to be as straightforward as "So how would you like to have sex with a black man?" That would be weird and awkward. Try to find out what kinds of guys she's attracted to. You can talk about it, and once she realizes that you're not the jealous type, she might want to open up about what she finds attractive.)
- Buy her a black dildo
(Obviously don't do this if she has never expressed any interest, and you haven't talked about it. That's just weird. However, if you've talked about it - see above, - and she said she finds black men attractive, or she thinks it would be exciting, then maybe you can talk about her masturbating with a black dildo while you watch.)
