Heath6699 said:Well guys the only prob is I want her to do it so bad. But I have nooo idea how to bring it up or if she even wants to. Any suggestions?
Heath6699 said:Well guys the only prob is I want her to do it so bad. But I have nooo idea how to bring it up or if she even wants to. Any suggestions?
dunacouple said:Heath6699 said:Well guys the only prob is I want her to do it so bad. But I have nooo idea how to bring it up or if she even wants to. Any suggestions?
As a women I can only tell you that it's hard for a women to see things in the perspective you see it. Don't listen to the horny dudes as you ONLY advisory.
Do you want your women to think your becoming a submissive man, maybe even bi sexual or gay. Or do you want her to see you as a men who just likes his wife to get fucked by big black men. Because, the latter implies the former for most women.
Just watch porn with her, put on IR and talk about it. Keep bringing back the the conversation. see how she feel about it. After 6 month's watch IR swinger porn with her, talk about that etc.
My hubby and I are swingers so the connection was made pretty quick, but most women dont like swinging, let alone IR swinging.cuckolding.
depravedfan said:Im obsessed about it as well but my wife has no clue and i cant imagine how i would possibly bring it up with her,
Zagg said:We're in the same boat, depravedfan. In fact, I know if I ever brought it up with my wife, it would be d-i-v-o-r-c-e.
depravedfan said:Im obsessed about it as well but my wife has no clue and i cant imagine how i would possibly bring it up with her,
willsrvu said:Zagg said:We're in the same boat, depravedfan. In fact, I know if I ever brought it up with my wife, it would be d-i-v-o-r-c-e.
depravedfan said:Im obsessed about it as well but my wife has no clue and i cant imagine how i would possibly bring it up with her,
I, on the other hand, am married to a dominant white female that has had Black and Asian lovers in the past and has a child (grown and gone) by a Black Man. She is quite aware of my fantasies and sometimes indulges me by telling me about her "indiscretions" with her Black lovers (invented alas) while masturbating me. Sometimes she tells me about her real past with her lovers, but those memories really aren't all that hot.
Anyway, for now she has no desire to be with anyone other than me, but is fully aware that she has the freedom to do so should she wish so long as she does so safely.
will
Zagg said:You're a lucky, lucky man, will.
willsrvu said:Zagg said:You're a lucky, lucky man, will.
I know, Zagg, believe me, I know!
She has told me that she would cuckold me if that is what I really wanted, but that she has no real desire to do so at this time. Note the last 3 words!
When ever we discuss it, which is usually when she sees someone that she thinks I might like as her bull, I tell her we only go there if it is what she wants to do and that I don't want her doing anything she isn't 100% comfortable with. Clearly, if she is looking for someone that pleases me, she isn't into doing it for herself, which makes it pointless.
Besides, the type of guy I envision as a bull (large, slightly tough, slightly arrogant, masculine, sort of like a younger me but bigger and Black like Samuel L Jackson, Richard Roundtree or Laurence Fishburne back in their prime- oh hell, even now! ) isn't really the type of guy she is generally attracted to like Mathew McConaughey, Johnny Depp, Antonio Bandaras, Jamie Foxx & Denzel. She prefers men that she sees as more gentle, less macho as she prefers to be the dominant in the relationship. Like I tell her, what makes her happy is what makes me happy, if we never go there, that's fine, but if we do it has to be for her pleasure.
She also feeds my fantasies regarding Black Women- I have standing permission to hook up with Beyonce or Halle Berry whenever one of them wants me! ;D
Oh! There's the phone. Might be Halle, gotta go!
will
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