I always thought this sounded so thrilling though I haven't tired it yet. The warm weather is finally here so I'll have to work up the courage to actually try it. It sounds so exciting to strike up a conversation with a good looking black stranger at the grocery or mall, wondering what he would think if he knew Or out at an upscale club in a sexy dress and slipping my panties off in the ladies room. Not something I could picture doing with my husband but maybe a girls night out. A sexy black man starts chatting me up, obviously aware of my wedding ring. Maybe I'd tell him how I'd never done anything daring when younger and he'd suggest this as an opportunity to take a risk. accuse me of being too straight or uptight to do it. Then when I came back from the ladies room feeling my dress brushing against skin that was always covered, he'd make me open my purse and show him my sexy underwear crumpled inside. And every little detail being magnified, the tingling sensation of sitting there carrying on a conversation, knowing he knows, or feeling a cool chill when the air conditioning turns on. It sounds so exciting I really hope I can convince myself to try it. I'd love to hear others experiences who have actually done this.