Well I talked to her. After she came home she had a big glass of wine as she does many times to relax from her day. I was a little nervous so I had 2 beers to loosen me up. So I asked her about her day and all of that good stuff and then after I got a little buzz I asked her how everything else in her life was. She said she was happy being with me and life was going pretty good but she needed a "good stuffing". Trying to get the conversation going deeper I said "well what do you mean by stuffing". She of course replied with "what do you think? my man of course" Then I said "oh...yes" I said "you don't get to see him much anymore do you" she said "no and it fucking sucks".
This was my opportunity.
So I say "hey. i've been thinking about your little problem and I want you to be happy so I thought of something you might like" she gave me a weird look. Almost a knowing look. So I said it. "why don't you start bringing him over here.maybe he could stay the night sometime to help you guys work around your schedules better" at this point her leg moved a little. I could tell she was getting wet from hearing me talk about it. She said "that wouldn't bother you?" I told her no and then I said "it actually excites me". She looked a little stunned but pleased. She ended by saying she was glad I was so cool with it and that she thought it was a good idea and that she would call "her man" tomorrow to discuss it with him since of course he had the final say in the matter.
I'm happy with myself. With the aid of a few drinks I was able to pull it off. I didn't ask about watching or anything. I thought it would be best to ask that once the plans were settled and he actually started coming over.
I have to admit i'm a little nervous right now. I might need a few drinks for when he comes over whether I watch or not. Yes its exciting but it might take me a little while to get used to it.