tomascini said:
... but I want to hear first whatever negativity about Black men in general that you're often prone to hear that scares you about them, or what makes you submissive to them so easily. ...
OK, I'll take a chance and
assume that's a twofold question even though it's missing the "and", so:
regarding the first, I don't fear Black men any more than any other. I think it's more a regional, localized bias sort of thing. You can go into areas that are virtually all white, all Asian, all Hispanic or whatever and hear the same sort of stuff. Black thugs this, Asian gang-bangers that, Cholos another and Skinheads or bikers whatever. All are to be cautious of NOT so much because any individual is all that, but put a few together and get that "I gotta be the baddest dog in my pack" mentality going and you're going to have shit. Been there, done that, don't need no more tee-shirts, thank you very much.
For the most part, the real down to earth people are the same no matter where they are or what their color. Just need to be careful of the "fringe".
If you're referring to the "Black is bigger" or Black is better" hype, sorry, but it's my experience that it is just that: hype. While statistically there is a slightly higher incidence of larger endowment among Blacks than other races, it isn't that much and I've seen pretty much the same size with white guys. Truth be told, most dicks I've seen in real life have been pretty much average regardless of color. Longest was Black, but it was a bit thin. Smallest was white, both length and girth. The few Asians were average length, but a bit thin. The largest overall was a Native American who had both length and girth working for him. All in all though, if you toss out those extremes, they've be pretty much about the same size wise.
Myself, I weigh in at 7 x 5.5, not huge, not small, just the right size to enable most women to let me enjoy ALL they have to offer as long as I spend a bit of time prepping them for anal. Most need me to go easy even up front at first and there haven't been many I haven't been able to "bottom out" in. Best thing for me is that I can usually find at least one hole that I can fit in all the way, unlike most of the "horse hung" guys you see in the porn videos that are bottomed out with 3 or 4 more inches to go outside.
About the second, I was turned on to sex as a VERY young boy by an older Black lad who enticed me into sucking his cock after first showing my friend (his younger brother) and I how to "feel real good" by teaching us to masturbate. His self confidence and authoritative manner struck the submissive chords in my being.
If I hadn't had that predisposition, I doubt that I would have the desire to submit to Blacks today. Had he been white or Asian or whatever, I probably would have directed my submissive desires there instead.
As it happened, he was Black, I enjoyed submitting to his desires and became cocksucker to he and his brother, as he instructed his brother that sucking dick was white boys work, which was OK with me because it gave me another Black cock to suck. I found that I really enjoyed sucking cock and preferred Black dick above all others. The only thing is I didn't care for kissing, hugging or doing any of the "romantic" stuff with guys. Not even anal sex, just wanted to suck their dicks.
I also developed strong attraction to Black women and women in general. That's where I get my romantic fix. That and I love eating pussy too!
So, I feel whatever we do or feel is basically already inside us, but reacts to the stimulus that we are exposed to. Once exposed to whatever that stimulus is, that becomes our fixation. Whatever fears we have, we will assign to what we experience as well.
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