Advice for a Shy Wife

Shy Wife,

OMG ... my computer almost burst in flames. You should write a book of short-stories including this as one of those stories.

Damn that is good Thanks.

V/R
Craig
 
May I make a suggestion....if you can, discuss mutual threesomes. One in which you agree to let him pick another woman, if you can pick the other guy. You are wonderfully sexy and should not be denied your chance to be sexually pleasured by a black male....
 
I had lunch with Kim the other day, I was really nervous about bringing up the 3some. She did tell me she has had a 3some with Ben and another woman, just someone they met at a club and just a one night thing. She told me Ben did them both and they did some stuff with each other, she told me she can't believe how long Ben can last. She also admitted she gave a friend of Ben's a bj. She said Ben watched but didn't join in, he told her if she didn't get him off he was going to let him screw her. She said she was so turned on when Ben fucked her after he left, she still had his cum on her face. Ben did her from behind telling her what a slut she was. What a lunch conversation, I had to wonder if anyone was eavesdropping from the other tables. I told her Roger had hinted at a 3some and how he always talked about how sexy she is. Kim laughed and told me we could probably have him finished in 10 min without even doing him, then what were going to do? After thinking about it she's probably right, how mean. She didn't think Ben would be too interested in her with a white guy, but he would probably like the idea of her & me. We left it she would think about it and see if she can come up with a plan, I can't wait to hear what she comes up with.

Thanks for the idea letmetaste, it definitely sounds exciting but I'm not sure how to come up with a black man who I know would be interested in a 3some with R. Do alot of black men not have an issue with a 3some with a white couple, or are they just that confident they'll be that much better than the white guy? Letting things settle a little for now to see where they're headed. Thanks for all the comments from everyone.
 
Shy_Wife said:
I had lunch with Kim the other day, I was really nervous about bringing up the 3some. She did tell me she has had a 3some with Ben and another woman, just someone they met at a club and just a one night thing. She told me Ben did them both and they did some stuff with each other, she told me she can't believe how long Ben can last. She also admitted she gave a friend of Ben's a bj. She said Ben watched but didn't join in, he told her if she didn't get him off he was going to let him screw her. She said she was so turned on when Ben fucked her after he left, she still had his cum on her face. Ben did her from behind telling her what a slut she was. What a lunch conversation, I had to wonder if anyone was eavesdropping from the other tables. I told her Roger had hinted at a 3some and how he always talked about how sexy she is. Kim laughed and told me we could probably have him finished in 10 min without even doing him, then what were going to do? After thinking about it she's probably right, how mean. She didn't think Ben would be too interested in her with a white guy, but he would probably like the idea of her & me. We left it she would think about it and see if she can come up with a plan, I can't wait to hear what she comes up with.

Thanks for the idea letmetaste, it definitely sounds exciting but I'm not sure how to come up with a black man who I know would be interested in a 3some with R. Do alot of black men not have an issue with a 3some with a white couple, or are they just that confident they'll be that much better than the white guy? Letting things settle a little for now to see where they're headed. Thanks for all the comments from everyone.
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Did her story about being shared by Ben make you more or less interested?
 
Not much new to report. Thanks to those who sent me suggestions for how to move things along. I find these all very exciting and thought provoking but I'm taking things slow to not be too obvious. Some of the recommendations that I found intriguing were:

Watch interracial porn & get a black dildo. I thought about ordering some IR movies but am looking for something not too over the top. I think I can probably tell Roger they are some movies Kim gave me to watch, he'd probably buy that. Still working on how to bring up the dildo.

Only get off watching/talking about interracial sex. I've been able to work this in some. I keep bringing up Derek and New Years. We also have a few videos with IR scenes and I try to make sure they are cued up. Making sure I get alot more interested when they are playing. Also, act like I lose interest if we're not talking about black men or IR stuff. He hasn't made any comments so I don't think I'm overdoing things yet.

Go out without panties, chat up black strangers in public with no underwear. This sounds really exciting, I think about it every time I go out, just haven't done it yet. It's really not skirt weather here now anyway, but maybe I'll try this in just jeans to get started, and work my way up.

So I appreciate your thoughts and know that I'm thinking about them even if I'm dragging my feet. For nevercanthinkof, yes talking with Kim about her 3some definitely increased my interest but I think both my husband and myself are too subdued to make things happen. I think it will take the right 3rd party to push us into it and they will have to take the lead. We will probably be so embarrassed, but you never know once things start where you may be willing to go. As far as pictures, I am going to need to get alot more comfortable with the whole thing before that happens, you know this is just vicarious for me too so far.
 
Shy Wife,

I haven't purchased it yet but there is a movie about this topic called Cuckold you can buy on Amazon that is not a full-up porn movie but I have heard it is steamy in places.

Good work ... keep going at your pace ... every small step is great.

V/R
Craig
 
Can understand it's not something you rush into. Take your time honey.
Do indulge us with some self pics while you're at it though :D
 
As a young bull, I would love to get to fuck you, and I'm really enjoying your updates as you keep getting closer to finally getting a taste of what it's like to fuck a black guy. I really think the threesome with you, Kelly and Ben will be awesome, and you'll have some support and guidance from a friend as you do it.
 
Thanks for all the nice comments, hope you like the additions. No big excitement lately, just snow & cold here. Work is boring, Ryan is on loan to another store so there's no distraction to make the time go faster. I have been making a point of chatting up black men when I run across them like at the grocery or gym. There is a new black trainer at the gym, who I've talked with a few times and he's given me some pointers on some of the equipment, any ideas on flirting at the gym?

I think my hubby is getting an idea where my interests lie, we were playing the other night with a movie on. We can watch tv from bed and during an IR scene I was on top facing away from him so I could see the tv. He could see past me so he knew what was on tv, and this was a position we really never do. I was trying to time myself to get off with the scene, guess I've watched this one enough to know how to time things. I was really playing with myself too as we all got closer (something else I never do). Anyway everything/one kind of came together at once, even though hubby slipped out a couple times as I really got into it. Actually he popped out at the big moment and ended up cumming more on me than in me, and I was getting off more with my fingers anyway. But with the timing it was all very exciting and I just thought I'd share it. I do have to admit I'm not real multi-orgasmic so I usually just have one big one when I get off, but this was a nice one and things rarely come together like that. Hubby did mention I seemed to really enjoy that scene, an oral scene with a well endowed, but not huge black man. I told him it just looked real sexy and the girl seemed really into it. Anyway that's about all I have right now, thanks for your comments and messages.
 
Thanks for the update, Shy_Wife. I guess I find it a bit amusing that an attractive woman asks for advice about flirting. I'll bet you're already very good at it. I'm a bit surprised that the black guy at the gym hasn't come on a bit stronger. You'll just have to bat your eyes a bit more. I do hope hubby will catch on soon that you're very interested in black men. It's not as if you're not giving him big hints.
 
This is fascinating. I am really glad that your hubby seems excited by this. Watching IR porn together is a big step, you should try and put it on exclusively whenever you are in the mood to watch some. That should speed things up a bit. Have you ever commented to him about how big they are?
 
depravedfan said:
This is fascinating. I am really glad that your hubby seems excited by this. Watching IR porn together is a big step, you should try and put it on exclusively whenever you are in the mood to watch some. That should speed things up a bit. Have you ever commented to him about how big they are?
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Not just the i/r movies. When you are walking around the mall, neighborhood, etc, and you see a sexy interracial couple, point them out, and then maybe say something about how much fun she must have. if you are lucky and they are kissing, and/or the Black Guy is feeling her ass, go slow and make him watch. Maybe play with his dick while he watches a white girl getting felt up. Play a game and see who can spot an i/r couple first...so he'll pay more attention. Have fun!
Misty
 
Shy Wife,

Misty has some great ideas there ... that is brilliant. You can slowly work into it but start showing hubby you are even a little more interested.

V/R
Craig
 
Thanks again for the comments and advice. Zagg, you make some very appropriate points, and it's not like my husband is oblivious. I have to admit he has made some pointed comments about my interest in other men and I have chickened out and assured him it is just fantasy play and I'm not looking to have an affair. We seem to dance around the ir subject too, it's always just other men, even though the other men are always black men so I imagine he's noticed that. Yes the flirting is unnecessary, I'm sure many of these men would be quite happy to fuck me silly if I just asked, and writing that makes me wonder what it would be like to be fucked silly.

I like to think I'm building my husbands interest so we will both enjoy this new adventure, but it's possible I'm delaying things because I'm not sure that I'm ready. Maybe I'm afraid I will be disappointed if the reality doesn't live up to the fantasy or maybe I just like the thrill of thinking about what could happen. It's kind of like a horror movie where the excitement is in the build up and the better the build up the more satisfied you feel after the payoff. You have definitely given me some things to think about if I can find time to think about things other than flirting with black men.

I appreciate people's interest in my posts and I like mistyblack's idea about pointing out ir couples. I have brought up the size thing before also, I think my husband may be exaggerating his 6" claim a little so I'll have to come up with a clever way to verify that.
 
Shy_Wife said:
.... I have brought up the size thing before also, I think my husband may be exaggerating his 6" claim a little so I'll have to come up with a clever way to verify that.
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Just measure the width of your hand by holding the ruler as if it were your husband's penis and add your other hand to the point that is 6 inches. IE: right fist plus two fingers of left hand.
Then when you are with your husband, hold his penis and masturbate him or suck him in a way that momentarily allows you to grasp him the same way as you did the ruler.
will
 
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