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Advice for a Shy Wife

Haven't had much time to write but there have been some interesting developments lately. I finally got a black vibrator, not some monster, those just looked too uncomfortable but big enough to make hubby concerned. We used it the other night watching one of my favorite scenes. Well I should say I used it, with hubby in bed watching me, he said he liked watching me get turned on. So I ignored him and got more & more turned on watching the scene. When it ended I even got him to restart it from the beginning so I could watch it again. By this point I was so turned on I knew I wouldn't last much longer. I had my eyes closed and had found just the right spot with the vibe, imagining myself in the scene, by now I know it by heart. It turned me on even more knowing my husband was watching me get off. After I came I looked over at Roger and saw that he had too, he asked if I had enjoyed myself and I told him it looked like we both did. He went to clean up & while he was in the bathroom I started the scene again, the whole thing had still left me aroused. I thought about what someone here had mentioned about letting him catch me, so when he came back he found me having another go around. I saw him stop at the doorway and I acted like I didn't notice he was there, and he stayed there and watched. After a little while I acted surprised and embarrassed, like I just noticed him there. I caught my breath, then just asked him, Honey, can you close the door and let me relax for a little bit. And he did, I don't know if he was still there or left but it was all really exciting and I found I was able to get off again wondering what he must be thinking. I can see this kind of thing happening again for us.
 
So now he's watched you with your black vibrator. It seems to me that there is a path that leads from there to him watching you with a black lover.

Shy_Wife said:
Haven't had much time to write but there have been some interesting developments lately. I finally got a black vibrator, not some monster, those just looked too uncomfortable but big enough to make hubby concerned. We used it the other night watching one of my favorite scenes. Well I should say I used it, with hubby in bed watching me, he said he liked watching me get turned on. So I ignored him and got more & more turned on watching the scene. When it ended I even got him to restart it from the beginning so I could watch it again. By this point I was so turned on I knew I wouldn't last much longer. I had my eyes closed and had found just the right spot with the vibe, imagining myself in the scene, by now I know it by heart. It turned me on even more knowing my husband was watching me get off. After I came I looked over at Roger and saw that he had too, he asked if I had enjoyed myself and I told him it looked like we both did. He went to clean up & while he was in the bathroom I started the scene again, the whole thing had still left me aroused. I thought about what someone here had mentioned about letting him catch me, so when he came back he found me having another go around. I saw him stop at the doorway and I acted like I didn't notice he was there, and he stayed there and watched. After a little while I acted surprised and embarrassed, like I just noticed him there. I caught my breath, then just asked him, Honey, can you close the door and let me relax for a little bit. And he did, I don't know if he was still there or left but it was all really exciting and I found I was able to get off again wondering what he must be thinking. I can see this kind of thing happening again for us.
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I think, in the end, it comes down to white people knowing their place. You can lobby and persuade in the direction of sex. But more than sex, it is developing the right racial attitudes across all domains that encourages whites to accept their proper place and as a natural consequence of doing so, interracial sex will soon follow.... It's inevitable.
 
Perhaps not inevitable in every particular case, but, statistically, yes. If you put black men and white women together, and substantial percentage of the white women will go black.

vera said:
I think, in the end, it comes down to white people knowing their place. You can lobby and persuade in the direction of sex. But more than sex, it is developing the right racial attitudes across all domains that encourages whites to accept their proper place and as a natural consequence of doing so, interracial sex will soon follow.... It's inevitable.
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I agree Zagg.... I see it often. White women and black men seem to be a natural fit. However, the reverse is not so natural... There are white men who will date black women but I think it is done more for social comment, than by natural attraction. In fact I know some white guys who, stung by the prospect and knowledge of a former girlfriend or wife gone black, will deliberetly sit out to pursue a black chick more as a "get-even" gesture than out of love or attraction....
 
I think the disinclination of black women to partner with white men is even stronger than the discinclination of white men to partner with black women. The attraction between black men and white women does appear, as you say, almost "natural".

vera said:
I agree Zagg.... I see it often. White women and black men seem to be a natural fit. However, the reverse is not so natural... There are white men who will date black women but I think it is done more for social comment, than by natural attraction. In fact I know some white guys who, stung by the prospect and knowledge of a former girlfriend or wife gone black, will deliberetly sit out to pursue a black chick more as a "get-even" gesture than out of love or attraction....
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Ive got a thought for you shy, if your hubby is up to it. Will he have sex in a room with other couples. Not only will this get him in a room with your friend and her man, but it will also give him inspiration. Maybe give your friends man a handjob while your friend blows your man and gets him off in 10 minutes like she says he can. A neighbor of mine gave me a drunken handjob about 7 months ago and just revealed to me today how freaked out she was about it BUT thought about me everyday since and now wants to go black for the first time in 45 years... and behind the back of her husband shes been with for 20+ years.




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I really don't have much new to update. I am surprised how easily hubby accepted my preoccupation with my new toy. He did at one point say he was concerned that I seemed to like it better than him. The next few times we had sex we didn't use it and I didn't bring up any ir stuff. I made sure to act disinterested, some of the suggestions people sent to me were to always appear bored during sex unless ir was involved. I found he seemed to get more aroused when I threatened to get my toy if he didn't satisfy me. It seemed if I got him excited with a little foreplay, then suggested I might not be satisfied with his performance, I could assure he would get off quickly. While it left me unsatisfied it allowed me to defend having the toy. It seems he is now often the one suggesting using it, and he admits he likes how turned on I get. The teasing about his performance is also becoming more common and I have even caught him bringing it up sometimes.

Also I don't think the 3some thing with Kim is happening. She felt her bf Ben wasn't too keen on the idea of us with my husband. She did say anytime I was interested in something with her & Ben he had no problem with that, go figure, huh? Maybe the suggestion of just getting us all together for some drinks and us girls start acting frisky and just see where things lead would work. I'm not too good at starting things like that but maybe Kim can help get the ball rolling. We'll see how things go, but that's about all that's new with me.
 
Shy_Wife said:
...... Also I don't think the 3some thing with Kim is happening. She felt her bf Ben wasn't too keen on the idea of us with my husband. .....
She did say anytime I was interested in something with her & Ben he had no problem with that, go figure, huh? Maybe the suggestion of just getting us all together for some drinks and us girls start acting frisky and just see where things lead would work. I'm not too good at starting things like that but maybe Kim can help get the ball rolling. We'll see how things go, but that's about all that's new with me.
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Hi Shy,
Glad to hear that your husband's conditioning via the toy is going well.

As far as the foursome with Kim and Ben: did you explain to them that that was most likely the best way to eventually get your husband to let you have threesomes with them? I would think that if Ben really wants to enjoy you that he would let Roger join in a foursome to show him how inadequate he is and open the door for Roger to bow out gracefully in the future so that Ben can enjoy you and Kim as it should be. He might consider letting Roger watch and perform clean up duties for you and Kim, perhaps for him as well.

Having Kim try to get the ball rolling might be the best way to accomplish this in the long run. In the meanwhile, keep hubby's training with the vibrator and interracial films going. You should have him perform oral sex on you as well. In fact have him lick your clitoris while using the dildo on you so that he can get use to serving you this way for when you are with Black lovers in the future.

Especially work on making his quick orgasms become his "normal" condition so that when he is confronted with you being pleasured by Ben or some other Black Man for long periods, he will assume his natural place as your cuckold.
When that happens you must reassure him that even though he may be sexually inadequate, as long as he takes care of your other needs and desires, he will always have a place in your heart. This will help keep him striving to please you.

In addition to showing your displeasure at his increasing inability to please you with his penis, you should make sure you praise his efforts at pleasing you orally, if in fact he does a good job of it. If he doesn't, you need to work on teaching him to pleasure you this way so that he will have something he can be happy that he is able to do for you in place of using his penis. That way, when you cuckold him with your Black lovers, he will be able to take comfort in knowing that while you need them for the pleasure their cocks give you, you will still want him for his tongue.

Best of luck,
will
 
I'm sorry that things are proceding slowly for you, but I guess that's life. Just don't lose sight of the goal.

Shy_Wife said:
I really don't have much new to update. I am surprised how easily hubby accepted my preoccupation with my new toy. He did at one point say he was concerned that I seemed to like it better than him. The next few times we had sex we didn't use it and I didn't bring up any ir stuff. I made sure to act disinterested, some of the suggestions people sent to me were to always appear bored during sex unless ir was involved. I found he seemed to get more aroused when I threatened to get my toy if he didn't satisfy me. It seemed if I got him excited with a little foreplay, then suggested I might not be satisfied with his performance, I could assure he would get off quickly. While it left me unsatisfied it allowed me to defend having the toy. It seems he is now often the one suggesting using it, and he admits he likes how turned on I get. The teasing about his performance is also becoming more common and I have even caught him bringing it up sometimes.

Also I don't think the 3some thing with Kim is happening. She felt her bf Ben wasn't too keen on the idea of us with my husband. She did say anytime I was interested in something with her & Ben he had no problem with that, go figure, huh? Maybe the suggestion of just getting us all together for some drinks and us girls start acting frisky and just see where things lead would work. I'm not too good at starting things like that but maybe Kim can help get the ball rolling. We'll see how things go, but that's about all that's new with me.
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Shy_Wife said:
I really don't have much new to update. I am surprised how easily hubby accepted my preoccupation with my new toy. He did at one point say he was concerned that I seemed to like it better than him. The next few times we had sex we didn't use it and I didn't bring up any ir stuff. I made sure to act disinterested, some of the suggestions people sent to me were to always appear bored during sex unless ir was involved. I found he seemed to get more aroused when I threatened to get my toy if he didn't satisfy me. It seemed if I got him excited with a little foreplay, then suggested I might not be satisfied with his performance, I could assure he would get off quickly. While it left me unsatisfied it allowed me to defend having the toy. It seems he is now often the one suggesting using it, and he admits he likes how turned on I get. The teasing about his performance is also becoming more common and I have even caught him bringing it up sometimes.

Also I don't think the 3some thing with Kim is happening. She felt her bf Ben wasn't too keen on the idea of us with my husband. She did say anytime I was interested in something with her & Ben he had no problem with that, go figure, huh? Maybe the suggestion of just getting us all together for some drinks and us girls start acting frisky and just see where things lead would work. I'm not too good at starting things like that but maybe Kim can help get the ball rolling. We'll see how things go, but that's about all that's new with me.
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I know people would like things to move fast, but this is a good pace....eventually bring up an attractive blacky guy in a passing conversation....when with your toy, mention that you wonder how the previous mentioned black guy compares to the toy.....slow and steady wins the race...its not a sprint...
 
Please feel free to contribute others experiences to this thread. It's encouraging to hear others have indulged their fantasies and had enjoyable experiences. Not much new has happened with me. We did go out one night with Kim & Ben. It was a strange feeling, knowing Ben was aware of my black fantasy. I felt like every time our eyes met he knew I was wondering what his big black cock would feel like. We had a nice dinner and went to a club. Neither my husband or I are big club people but it was a more subdued older crowd kind of jazz/funk club. Kim knew my husband wouldn't dance but gave him a hard time and used it as an excuse to get Ben to dance with me. Now that we were alone Ben pretty bluntly let me know he was available whenever I was ready, and Kim was ok with it. He was so confident and sexual I was sure he knew how hot I was getting. We danced several times over the evening & during slower numbers he would fondle my breast or let his hand slide over my ass, nothing blatant, but I did nothing to discourage him. Then late in the evening, our last dance, he guided my hand down to his cock which I could feel extending down his leg. I gave him a quick stroke & squeeze but I felt like my knees were going to buckle and he almost had to catch me. I told him I needed to sit down and he seemed amused as he led me back to our table.

Ben & Kim met some other friends there and hubby & I decided to head home. Once we were in bed Roger asked if I enjoyed dancing with Ben & I told him about the touching. He said he wasn't surprised and admitted he liked knowing other men found his wife attractive. He wanted to know about me touching Ben's cock and I made a big deal about how big it felt, and it wasn't even very hard.. He made a comment about how horny I was and what Ben would have thought if he knew. While I was playing with him I kept bringing up Ben's cock & I could tell Roger was getting off on it. I was on top and when I finally let him into me I teased him that he better get me off or I would have to call Ben. I don't think he lasted more than a minute. So as usual I finished myself with my toy with hubby knowing I was fantasizing about Ben's big black cock.
 
Hot Damn Shy, one more night out with Kim and Ben will have your hubby's in a tizzy. I suggest you do it again and get hubby off in the car and then go back into the club and you may get what you seek.
 
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