Advice for a Shy Wife

[JD46]

Wow, that's incredible that you touched his BBC! You must have been so excited and nervous. What we all wouldn't give to be in your hubby's shoes!

 

[Linda]

Thanks for all the encouragement, I've just kind of been on an excitement high since our night out. I talked to Kim a few days later and she let me know Ben had enjoyed teasing me, she admitted she had shared every detail of my fantasies she knew with him. He told her he could sense my excitement/frustration and thought Roger probably got a real treat that night. She said Ben had given her everything she could handle that night. I told her Roger knew about the touching and was kind of excited by Ben's interest. I even found myself sharing how he had been too quick and I had to finish myself. I can't help thinking about Ben now knowing all this and how I'll feel the next time we see them.

I have also been getting Roger more comfortable around my toy. I've gotten him to finger me while I use it and even for him to use it on me a couple times, so he could see what its like to handle it. I've teased him with it when he goes down on me but he gets nervous whenever I get it too close to his face. But I really don't think it will be much longer before I'll be enjoying it and his tongue at the same time.

 

[Zagg]

Glad to hear that things are moving along for you. Slowly perhaps, but moving nonetheless.

Thanks for all the encouragement, I've just kind of been on an excitement high since our night out. I talked to Kim a few days later and she let me know Ben had enjoyed teasing me, she admitted she had shared every detail of my fantasies she knew with him. He told her he could sense my excitement/frustration and thought Roger probably got a real treat that night. She said Ben had given her everything she could handle that night. I told her Roger knew about the touching and was kind of excited by Ben's interest. I even found myself sharing how he had been too quick and I had to finish myself. I can't help thinking about Ben now knowing all this and how I'll feel the next time we see them.

I have also been getting Roger more comfortable around my toy. I've gotten him to finger me while I use it and even for him to use it on me a couple times, so he could see what its like to handle it. I've teased him with it when he goes down on me but he gets nervous whenever I get it too close to his face. But I really don't think it will be much longer before I'll be enjoying it and his tongue at the same time.

 

[curiouscraig45]

Shy Wife,

Excellent ... this has come a long way. Keep it up.

V/R
Craig

 

[Linda]

I had an interesting conversation with a girl I work with named Kristen. She also bartends at a local restaurant and had mentioned Roger & I should stop by sometime. We finally made it a few weeks ago, sat in the bar and had dinner so we could chat with her. She had mentioned having a crush on one of the assistant managers there, named Anthony. I asked if he was there so we could check him out and to my surprise (though I'm not sure why it should have been a surprise) she pointed out an attractive black man. Nothing came of it that evening but it did give me a chance to gush about how sexy he looked. When Kristen was busy with other things Roger mentioned he thought I had told him Kristin had a boyfriend and I joked about keeping her options open and even got him to admit Anthony looked like he'd be a hot time in bed.

I didn't think much more about this until yesterday at work when Kristin told me she had hooked up with Anthony. No date or dinner, they just went for a drink after work one night and ended up back at her place. She described how he went all night and said at one point she found herself with her head hanging over the side of the bed and noticed the sun coming in through the blinds and realized it was the next morning. She also admitted she had to finish him with a blowjob the last time, she couldn't take anymore, and after he left she had to make a trip to the drug store to get something for the soreness. I asked if she thought this was leading to something serious and if she was still with her boyfriend (he's white), and she laughed and said she didn't see a serious relationship but was looking forward to a repeat performance, after some recovery time. She was planning to keep her boyfriend around but he wasn't getting any for a while. I joked she could have him use his tongue to soothe her though I think we both considered it would be an enjoyable option. I found her story exciting and thought I would share it. I am also looking forward to bringing it up with hubby, thinking of ways to spin it so he has to admit how sexy it is.

 

[SirBlkChe]

cum to MD or DC and ill BBC your sexy body

 

[letmetasteuthere]

I've been away for a while, but it seems you are doing well in progress. I continue to wish you luck and pacing and if you would like my advice let me know.....or my help... ;-)

I had an interesting conversation with a girl I work with named Kristen. She also bartends at a local restaurant and had mentioned Roger & I should stop by sometime. We finally made it a few weeks ago, sat in the bar and had dinner so we could chat with her. She had mentioned having a crush on one of the assistant managers there, named Anthony. I asked if he was there so we could check him out and to my surprise (though I'm not sure why it should have been a surprise) she pointed out an attractive black man. Nothing came of it that evening but it did give me a chance to gush about how sexy he looked. When Kristen was busy with other things Roger mentioned he thought I had told him Kristin had a boyfriend and I joked about keeping her options open and even got him to admit Anthony looked like he'd be a hot time in bed.

I didn't think much more about this until yesterday at work when Kristin told me she had hooked up with Anthony. No date or dinner, they just went for a drink after work one night and ended up back at her place. She described how he went all night and said at one point she found herself with her head hanging over the side of the bed and noticed the sun coming in through the blinds and realized it was the next morning. She also admitted she had to finish him with a blowjob the last time, she couldn't take anymore, and after he left she had to make a trip to the drug store to get something for the soreness. I asked if she thought this was leading to something serious and if she was still with her boyfriend (he's white), and she laughed and said she didn't see a serious relationship but was looking forward to a repeat performance, after some recovery time. She was planning to keep her boyfriend around but he wasn't getting any for a while. I joked she could have him use his tongue to soothe her though I think we both considered it would be an enjoyable option. I found her story exciting and thought I would share it. I am also looking forward to bringing it up with hubby, thinking of ways to spin it so he has to admit how sexy it is.

 

[Linda]

Some interesting developments lately I have been getting updates from Kristen on her affair with Anthony. She told me she has pretty much quit having sex with her white boyfriend. She said last week she went out for dinner with her boyfriend and after dinner told him she wasn't feeling too good and had him take her home. Then she called Anthony to come over and she had another night of unbelievable sex. She said she's never known any white guy that fucks like that. I must have seemed surprised she described it as fucking, but she said she didn't know what else to call it. So I had to update hubby and make a big deal about how good she said it was.

I have been getting Roger more comfortable with my black vibrator also. While it's not huge, probably less than 7", it still looks imposing next to my husbands white dick. I have also found it is better to not allow him to get off too quickly. He seems to get really turned on when I tease him about being interested in other men and I could usually get him to cum pretty quicly. I could then use this as an excuse to indulge myself with my vibrator and fantasize about a black lover who would be able to satisfy my dark desires. Now that he seems to have accepted my preference for my toy I no longer need to make his pleasure seem more important. In fact he often lost interest after he was done so by making him wait I can keep him more involved in the fantasy. Last time I used my vibrator I was able to get him to lick me while I used the vibrator on myself. I started out alternating with the vibrator and having him lick me, then as I got close I held his head in place and used the vibrator. He didn't resist and sensing how close I was kept using his tongue while I came on my black toy. After I finished I saw he had also been stroking himself and had also cum. I brushed the vibrator through the puddle he left and brought it to my lips and licked the residue from the tip. I have never let my husband cum in my mouth or swallowed his cum but wanted him to know I would for a black lover. I tried to pull him close and kiss him but he pulled away. I teased him with the toy but he backed off even more and I knew he was done fior that night. I'll let everyone know how things progress.

 

[hnj]

Can you Show us pics of your hot friend Kirsten ?

 

[JD46]

So hot! Thanks for the update!

 

[willsrvu]

Some interesting developments lately I have been getting updates from Kristen on her affair with Anthony. .... So I had to update hubby and make a big deal about how good she said it was.

Glad to hear you share these updates with your husband, they will help keep his imagination working overtime.
I'd love to see photos of Kristen and Anthony should you be able to get any.

I have been getting Roger more comfortable with my black vibrator also. ... Last time I used my vibrator I was able to get him to lick me while I used the vibrator on myself. I started out alternating with the vibrator and having him lick me, then as I got close I held his head in place and used the vibrator. He didn't resist and sensing how close I was kept using his tongue while I came on my black toy. ...

This is great! Not only are you training him to pleasure you with his mouth as you desire, but this will also help make him comfortable with licking you while your Black lover fucks you when the time cums ... er comes. ;D You should try having him lay on his back and lick you while in a "69" position and have him insert the Black vibrator in you at the same time. You can play with his penis as you wish to keep him on edge WITHOUT allowing him to cum until you are completely satisfied.
A little squeeze of his balls should help if his enthusiasm occasionally wanes.

... After I finished I saw he had also been stroking himself and had also cum. ...

This is both good and bad.
The good is that pleasing you orally while being replaced by your vibrator excites him.
The bad is that he shouldn't be pleasuring himself while he should be totally focused on providing you pleasure. (See my suggestion above for a way to have him focus on your pleasure while you are in control of his penis and balls.)

... I brushed the vibrator through the puddle he left and brought it to my lips and licked the residue from the tip. I have never let my husband cum in my mouth or swallowed his cum but wanted him to know I would for a black lover. I tried to pull him close and kiss him but he pulled away. I teased him with the toy but he backed off even more .....

If you plan to have him give you oral sex when your pussy is full of Black sperm, you need to begin getting him comfortable with consuming his own ejaculate. This will make the transition to eating your lovers cum easier.
You might consider surprising him with a blowjob after he performs oral sex on you combined with your vibrator without having an orgasm himself as discussed above. While the thought of him cumming in your mouth may not thrill you, it will give you a perfect opportunity to kiss him with a mouthful of his cum to "snowball" (share while kissing or spit into his mouth) him with.

Keep an empty glass discretely on hand so that should he refuse to kiss you, you can spit the cum into the glass and tell him that if he ever wants to feel your mouth on his penis again that he better kiss you right now because if his sperm is good enough to be in your mouth then it is certainly good enough to be in his also. Then take a small sip of his cum and kiss him, continue doing this until all of his cum is gone.
This will help make him accustomed to eating sperm as well as give the two of you another activity to share that will help strengthen his emotional bond to you.

Eventually you will be able to spit his entire load into his mouth and have him swallow it without issue. At this point you will want to change his reward for pleasing you to an occasional fuck, with him eating your "cream pie" afterward. If he balks at eating his cum from you, entice him into doing it so that you can share his sperm in a kiss again. Eventually you will have conditioned him to eat his sperm from you every time you permit him to enjoy an orgasm. From there it won't be difficult to have him eat cream pies left by your lovers.

However, one thing you mustn't do is to allow him to think he is entitled to a reward every time he services you. Nor should you allow him to think that you are rewarding him, even though you are.
Save the blowjobs and fucks for those times he has been especially good and make sure that you praise his efforts as well as making it a point to tell him that he made you feel so good that you just have to have him in your mouth or pussy right now. This way he will always strive to do his best and, while he may be disappointed the times that you don't give him a treat, it will keep him guessing as to what he can do to make it better for you to try to earn another treat.

Your goal should be to keep him in love with you and striving to make you happy. You don't need to be mean or bitchy to do this. Being sweet and loving works just as well, if not better. Knowing that you love him enough to stay with him and permit him to occasionally have the pleasure of sex with you even though his penis can't really please you will keep him desiring to keep you happy with his oral efforts and giving you his blessing to have lovers to give you the real cock sexing that you deserve.

Best wishes and keep us updated please!
will

 

[curiouscraig45]

Shy Wife.

That is brilliant ... great work. Keep going sweety. I really think you have him close to the tipping point.

If there is anything I can do to help. let me know.

V/R
Craig

 

[Linda]

Thanks for the comments but I wouldn't feel comfortable sharing Kristen's pics even if I had any. Also I can see Wil has put a great deal of thought into training a husband. I'll have to work on the approach you are suggesting, I know I need to be more demanding and let him know this is about my pleasure and not his but that just doesn't come naturally for me. I like the 69 idea and I'll work on that. I've seen snowballing in movies but had never thought about trying it, I can't see my husband doing it, but he has surprised me so far.

 

[hnj]

Thanks for the comments but I wouldn't feel comfortable sharing Kristen's pics even if I had any. Also I can see Wil has put a great deal of thought into training a husband. I'll have to work on the approach you are suggesting, I know I need to be more demanding and let him know this is about my pleasure and not his but that just doesn't come naturally for me. I like the 69 idea and I'll work on that. I've seen snowballing in movies but had never thought about trying it, I can't see my husband doing it, but he has surprised me so far.

Shywife,
I understand your reluctance to post Kristen's pics. But obviously you Have already post more daring pics before
Please remember you only Have friends and supporters on this forum so it would be a great thrill to put a face on this white bomb Addicted to black manhood. What an exemple for people here to read ! Besides you already revealed us so much about her superior sex life...

 

[Linda]

Been away for a while. I've got a new job now & I have been busy getting things in order there. Things have been progressing slowly but there have been some developments. I recently had a very close encounter with Ben. We were at a cookout this summer at his house with Kim & mostly alot of his friends. I was feeling randy, & knowing there would be several black men there I decided to go the no underwear route. I wore a summery dress & I had to wear a bra or it would have just been too obvious. I stashed a pair of panties in my purse in case I chickened out and felt almost in a haze of excitement as we got ready to leave and on the drive over. We took some crackers & dip and as I bent over to get it out of the car Roger jokingly rubbed my butt & told me I looked really nice. He didn't know what I was doing and was shocked when he realized he didn't feel any panties through the thin dress fabric. I was so embarrassed and worried what he would think, but he just told me he thought it was sexy and threatened to let Ben in on the secret. The thought of Ben knowing really gave me a thrill but I was sure he wouldn't really tell.

It was a thrill chatting with all the black men there, wondering if they noticed there were no panty lines that should have been visible through the thin dress. By evening I was getting pretty tipsy & Roger was even worse. We were talking in a group with Ben & a couple of his friends. Ben commented he liked my dress, it looked very cool for the warm summery weather. Roger added my outfit provided some additional relief from the summer heat & when they all looked quizzically at him he went on, well it may be missing an item allowing her to enjoy the cool breeze a little more. I was shocked & embarrassed, I'm not sure if he didn't realize what he said because of the alcohol or was getting a thrill himself ratting me out. I don't even remember if I said anything but I turned for the house to find a bathroom so I could put on the spare panties. Now I was sure they were paying extra attention while I walked away, and I don't know how to describe the weird mix of excitement & embarrassment I was feeling.

Of course someone was in the bathroom & I had to wait. Ben came in the house shortly & told me I could use the upstairs bathroom & led me up the stairs. He opened the door for me and then surprised me when he followed me in & closed the door behind us. When I just stood there looking at him he said I thought you needed to go. I took the panties out of my purse and said I was going to put these on, but he took them out of my hand and put them in one of the drawers. Then he turned back to the toilet and pulled out his cock and relieved himself. I could see his cock was considerably larger than my husbands, even soft & he was uncircumcised, another difference. After he finished I just stood there watching & he told me I could help shake it off with a smirk. Without really realizing what I was doing I touched it and felt the weight in my hand, then stroked it feeling the foreskin slide back & forth. I could feel it growing and though it was no monster it was obviously considerably larger than Roger's. I felt his hand pull the back of my dress up exposing my ass then felt his fingers brush over the cheek and between my legs knowing in seconds he would feel how wet I was. I'm surprised I didn't fall into the toilet the way I jumped when someone knocked on the bathroom door and said "Ben, are you in there?" I'm not sure what happened, but some ex-friend had shown up and there was some beef with another guy at the cookout,. but the jist was Ben needed to go make sure things didn't escalate. He adjusted himself as he pulled up his shorts to best hide his semi-erection and slipped out, I'm not sure if his friend realized I was in the bathroom too. I waited a few minutes to get my composure feeling my whole body shaking like when you narrowly avoid an accident then headed back outside.

Anyway between being angry with Roger and Ben being busy with defusing the situation with his friends, I caught up with Kim & told her thanks for inviting us but we needed to head home. Roger was in bed & out by the time I got out of the bathroom at home I was armed with my toy and the memories of Ben's cock when my phone beeped with a text message from Ben. He asked if everything was ok with us. I started to text back "Its fine, but hubs out cold and I'm left to fend for myself", then reread it & debated whether to send it. I thought about it then added "again" and hit send. Shortly i got a new message saying "ready to help out when u are". I just texted back "soon", set the phone aside and lost myself in thoughts of things to come.

 

[willsrvu]

Very nice to see you back again, Shy.
Thanks for the great update! Things do seem to be progressing well.
Can hardly wait to read your next update.

will

 

[curiouscraig45]

Shy wife ... welcome back and great progress.

Hope you keep us updated.

 

[JD46]

Hot stuff! Thanks for coming back and giving us an update.

 

[Linda]

The cookout was about 3 weeks ago now. I confronted Roger about why he would tell everyone I wasn't wearing panties. He said he wasn't thinking straight & found the flirting between me & Ben exciting & just wanted to push things. I told him Ben cornered me in the bathroom & I touched his cock, after all it was his fault anyway. Roger wanted to know everything that happened but I told him how we were interrupted & nothing happened, but let him know how disappointed I was. He wanted to know what might have happened. what I would have done, but I just told him I didn't know, whatever Ben wanted to happen. Then he wanted to know how big Ben was, exactly how I touched it. I asked why he wanted to know these details? He hesitated then admitted he wanted to know what I found so exciting about black cocks. I laughed and pointed out I could ask him the same thing. Then I lead him into the bedroom and got out the toy and let him know his job was to get me ready so I could fantasize about what might have happened with Ben. He seemed perfectly ok with that.

Several days later I received a call from Kim, she had found the panties Ben had stashed in the bathroom drawer. She berated me over the phone, calling me a whore and slut until I was almost crying trying to explain. Then she started laughing and confided Ben has been completely open about his pursuit of me and she was fully aware he couldn't wait to get into my pants. She is also convinced I need to experience it and should quit putting things off. Her plan is for me to tell Roger we are planning a girls night out , but her & I would be the only girls & the night out would be at her place with Ben. Everything seems to be reaching a boiling point.

 

[undercovering]

That is so hot Shy Wife, can't wait to hear what happens.......i wish my wife would turn into a black cock lover, like you are!!